8 Secrets Of Being Valued By People

  Stop lying about it- you care about what people say about you, Surely you do. Theres something in us that makes us concerned about what people think about us. We all want that power popularity provides. We want to be loved, known and respected for one reason or the other. This is why we would make impressions all the time so people can come to like us better. We would talk well, act well and look well just to make impressions but sometimes it is more than that, the classic man must understand the basis of making long lasting impressions as well as relationships. Here are some useful guidelines you can use;

1. Learn to like people:

        Think long and hard about this- If you want to be liked by people, you have to learn to like other people first. We need to stop discriminating against people and start showing genuine interest in the affairs of people. People will like you automatically only if you like them too.

2. Smile;

       People do not always like to be around persons with smiling issues because everyone seems to believe that smiling costs nothing and it is true- it costs nothing to wear a smile even when things are tough and you feel smiling is not neccessary. People will be attracted to that smile on your face and will grow to like you.
3. Help someone;

        Something inside us has the job of telling us to pass by a person in need and mind our business- thats the selfish part of us. We forget the fact that we help ourselves when we help other people.The truth right now is- help a person and you win him to your side....fair enough.

4. Be Kind;

         Please do not complain if people are not kind to you when you are not in anyway kind to them. People react to us just the same way we react to them. Show some kindness today and see the number of friends you are going to make.

5. Try Humour;

          Remember how people were always around that kid in your school because he always made them laugh? Try being funny a bit and see what happens. Stop being scared that somebody might pick offense, just be careful not to hurt someone.
6. Listen;

        It has been my secret since elementary school. People always felt free to tell me their problems not because they felt I had the power to solve them, but because I always listened to them and tried my best to help out. The next time somebody talks to you, listen, and you will see him coming back the next day to talk.

7. Be knowledgeable in many fields;

          You will be more likeable if you had an answer to nearly every question you were asked and you did so with all amount of humility. Learn about different subjects, read books and watch documentaries. I promise- you are going to make more friends.

8. Be Humble;

       Yes, stop being bossy and proud. Stop ordering people around. Try requesting for favours than trying to take advantage of everybody. People like humble people because they know they would never be ordered around like they are some slave.

I wish you all the best in trying to make yourself more likeable

      Yours in classicity,

       Flourish Herbert.